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Kitabın adı Focality and Extension in Kinship: Essays in Memory of Harold W. Scheffler
12. bölümün başlığı: ”Do Women Really Desire Casual Sex? Analysis of a Popular Adult Online Dating”.
Males more than females utilise prostitutes, consume pornography, require less time before consenting to sex and sex with a stranger… Men have more spontaneous thoughts about sex, a greater variety of sexual fantasies, greater frequency of wanting intercourse and with a larger number of partners.. Young women overwhelmingly complaining that a one-night stand’ is not emotionally satisfying. Men seldom voiced a similar complaint.
It is, thus, puzzling to find a proliferation of sexually oriented dating websites claiming that every locality has females eager to engage in casual sex encounters… The ubiquity of the online sex sites raises an intriguing question: Are the participating women harbingers of an emerging shift in American female sexual behaviour?
The authors collected data from individuals’ profiles on a large, casual sex dating website… After dropping the prostitution, swinger and vague ads, our original sample was reduced to 677 males and 546 females (n 1,223)…
Our study found that the ‘new heterosexual female sexual persona may be essentially something of a tease to attract a potential partner’s interest with little genuine interest in having a casual sexual encounter…
The straight female profile ads suggest a sexual openness and thus availability to any and all men, while continuing to be insistent on engaging in sex only within an established relationship…Heterosexual women’s (but not men’s) profiles overwhelmingly and repeatedly asserted they were not interested in a ‘ONE NIGHT STAND!’.
For women who are not in a swinger relationship or identifying as bisexual, it seems that the urge to be desired is fulfilment enough.
If the bisexual, bicurious or heterosexual women coming out of a ‘dead marriage’ are dropped from the sample, there are only 40 women, or 7 per cent of our entire sample population, who state they are interested only in a casual sexual encounter.
Of the females who expressed the strongest preference for partner variety, the majority of the females are bisexual. It is significant that 54 per cent of females who stated or strongly hinted at wanting ‘no strings attached’ sex were bisexual/bicurious. This is a rather high percentage and requires further commentary… We did not anticipate that bisexual females would be the most prominent users on the dating site.